Rekindle the Flame of Love! FOR THE MEN!!!!!

Alright! Today's blog is aimed at the men!  I'm sure a majority of my readers if not all are ladies.  So ladies, invite some of your men to read this and gain some insight!

Hello to all of you men brave enough to read this!  You're reading this because a female/lady thought enough of you to send you here!  My name is ALicia and my husband Sean and I are doing 1 year of the 5 love languages.  http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/.  I would like to invite all of you men to take the 5 love languages quiz.  I know, it's not really very manly, but it will do things for your marriage/relationship with your wife or girlfriend.  Find out what your love language is!  I double dog dare you!  Afterwards ask your wife or girlfriend to find out what her love language is. Then start speaking her love language.

Is your marriage in a strain?!!!  Is it distant?  Has the flame of love been extinguished?  Well, let me tell you from a wife who thought her marriage was great, you can ignite a fire so bright that it can't be put out.  Last Summer my husband and I did the 5 love languages for 90 days. OH MY!  God did great and mighty things in our marriage!  SO much so  that we've decided to embark on this for an entire year.

Today I would like to challenge all of you men to do one thing:  Do something for her that she doesn't expect!  If you don't have any money, it's ok.  Here are some great tips!

*Write her a note to tell her how much you love her.  Yes, I just asked you to write her a quick love note.
* Cook dinner for her
*Do her least favorite chore for her without being asked.
*Run her bath water for her (I condone this for married people ONLY)!
*Say something encouraging to her!

For all of you married men out there here are just a few tips for you!  I know God made you guys to procreate so you think about sex early and often throughout the day!  (I am now beet red!)....Hang on guys, I'm going somewhere with this.  Here are some tips for you:

MARRIED MEN ONLY

*Wear her favorite cologne!
*Candlelight dinner
*A single red rose...send it to her at work
*Send her on a scavenger hunt throughout the house..you are the prize at the end!  (SO RED Right now!)
*Encourage her!  Yes, say something positive for her
*Flirt with her!  Ask her on a date! Get creative! You married her...so ask her out!!!!!  She might be shocked!
*watch the movie Fireproof together!  It's good!  Seriously, go rent it guys!

Alright guys!  Have fun and thank you for taking the time to read this blog!  God bless your day!

Lovingly Sean's,
Alicia Roark